Lots of choices, but Molenberghs is good; Brown and Prescot is good and more readable, Fitzmaurice and Laird is also quite readable and more comprehensive than Brown and Prescot.
If you are using SAS, the SAS manual on Mixed Models is a good starting point. Virtually all the books are based on SAS coding. There are good books on Stata coding (Rabe-Hesketh),
I'm less familiar with R books in this area.
SPSS you will have to see if anyone else on the listserve knows of any; SPSS has been rather slow at developing advanced statistical methods. Probably because it is "owner of the day" of the SPSS software.
Ray
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Raymond Hoffmann, PhD
Professor of Biostatistics
Medical College of Wisconsin
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